GFE (girlfriend experience)
While almost anyone can do phone sex as a job, to be truly successful and make a good living, there has to be a level of talent involved. Providing a true girlfriend experience is one of those types of services that you pretty much either can or can’t do. Of course one can always learn and improve, but being someone’s online or on the phone girlfriend is skill that must come naturally in order for the woman to really be good.
Why? Making polite, exciting and intelligent conversation about a vast variety of topics while simultaneously attracting the caller in not just a physical way but also in an emotional way is a balancing act that not all women can handle. Add to the mix the risks we undertake in allowing ourselves to be vulnerable and really enjoy time with a caller that may lead to feelings on our end and you have quite a combination of factors that make this type of call inherently dangerous. Not to mention the fact that eventually a large percentage of these callers come to the conclusion that real feelings mean that they don’t have to pay to talk anymore.
I can honestly say that I’ve had some amazing phone relationships with men I knew I’d never meet, but who genuinely appealed to me on many levels. I looked forward to their calls, liked chatting with them online and hey, if we’d ever actually hooked up, I’m sure the sex would have been mind blowing.
GFE is my first real phone sex love. The fulfillment I get from developing these relationships is second to none. I love being the last voice a man hears before he falls asleep, that one person he can count on to care about how his day went. If something exciting happens to you and your first thought is to tell ME about it, before your friends or mom or co-workers, then I’ve really done my job.
Of course, this is a real relationship. Like all relationships, sometimes they just don’t work out. Personalities don’t mesh, schedules don’t work out, desires don’t match up. When looking for a phone sex operator for your GFE calls, be prepared for at least a little time to get to know each other. For a GFE relationship to work properly, there needs to be an element of real desire there before the sex comes into play, just like in a real world relationship.
Yes, it takes more time, money and effort, but the end result if you find the right person can really be worth it for everyone involved.